Stop Chasing People Who Don't Match Your Effort ❤️ | A Life Lesson

Right. [clears throat] So yeah, it's 12 a.m. in the night and I have been done with my work uh from everything and I wanted to share an incident that did repetitate today. So it's like um all about efforts that um I usually give like I'm a person who would give 10 times an efforts to the person who may or may not return in but um that's where I feel like that's the issue that I need to work upon and I have worked upon it quite well since a long time now because back then I was a person who used to give a lot and try my best to gain [snorts] the attention from that other person. But that other person have their own priorities, have their own set of rules or beat anything. So they may not acknowledge it. They may not um how we say like they may not they could not give it back. Um they have their own ways but um [snorts] um again like you are ready to give all the efforts and then you crave for their attention. You will just do anything. You will text them. You will call them. You will try to say something that that may gain their attention. Be it in a negative way, be it in a um anyway that that could gain their attention and they uh spend their time on them because yeah once in a while they may have spent. But today again when it happened that when I messaged and that person uh uh respond back with a dry like it's just a reaction maybe on the message and so that means that again is that person wrong we don't know that's not us to judge but what we can do is we can control our emotions we can control our efforts so in that case what I do is I try to focus on many others again still I'm struggling with um uh finding a lifetime partner let's say which I have not like I have never been in any relationship or any girl friends as in girl also like I have very few friends but again it's a part of the journey and it's it's been very nice journey overall yes touchwood no doubt but um yeah you crave someone you want someone to be there on the side with whom you could um exchange the care the warmth um the the attention and everything. So I just wanted to share that and now I have been focusing on so many things my work and uh over time I spend some time on the other hostel and now I'm also appearing for a certification. So yeah that's it I this thank you so much then next see you next time. Till then take care. Bye-bye. See you amigos.