Understand Them First ❤️ | A Grandmother’s Journey, Emotions & the Power of Empathy ✨

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Hi, namaste Kamj. So, uh I just have been going through something in my life that I wanted to share here. Um so my grandma my grandmother Daddy Ba is sitting next to me and it got to me thinking that uh you know just like the child uh they also needs to be heed listened first and then uh let's say be advised or anything because they have lived their own journey or own life through ups and downs and many mysterious or let's say adventurous um yeah and they are constantly complaining in that in this age. So he's almost around I would say 90 years uh next year and uh uh you know the family members also treat them in a different way because they do those things and she has been that you know selfrespect person uh but that goes to beyond limit and it it then affects them or it affects others around them. So they needs to be understood first that okay this is what they had gone through now it needs to be changed and how it could be changed it uh by I feel like by communicating so sorry so that's why I have traveled from Pune to here to come here to understand her and then make her understand that if anything that I feels like which is okay because all I think all she needs is the attention and definitely uh the family members like Taju like my mom my had uh the house helps, the cooks, everyone has been giving them such uh support, such care, such warmth, but still see complaints on and on and on. So that's something that I'm trying to address and hopefully I'll be successful and uh yeah so she's u yeah you as you can see see here that she's writing some slopes and that that so basically that they needs to mandates like they need to be calm they need to be peaceful um so that those thoughts because they will like at this age of 30 around like next year this thoughts just comes in so just think how it will be for the 90 years old uh you know uh I I so I I give this example like there is a 30 years old uh wall or let's say 90 years old where different layers has been uh has been there and now what you can do is like either you could decorate it uh you could paint it in a good way that or because you cannot just you know break it break it break it and it it will break because that's 90 years u so what we can do is we could just nicely painted out. Um so that hoping that you know it will uh it will be smooth and it will be good and yes they want to live on their own terms and conditions but now since their body doesn't supports them u it needs to be also uh studied first and understood and uh so she is also suffering through dementia I think that's like forgetting things once in a while but she remembers everything clearly like last time also when she traveled to Pune or in the car like she she has this knee problem also. So she has been uh you know proposing or let's say requesting or stubborning about getting them replaced but at this age it gets very difficult like so my uh there's there's one relative who got near placed and pain is unbearable. So that's why everyone like including the doctor also advised that maybe that's not the solution. So what could be done is yeah you need to leave it. So that's why like you know I'm and I'm I'm trying my best to give her the positivity that uh she's doing great. She is going everywhere. Um like because earlier when she was living in a different home it was just 4x4 like small room uh uh the the bed and next to it there was the temple u where she has to go through the whole day but now here she's living in this whole like I yeah again it's it's a very uh it might it might be a big thing for but it's a very small thing for us and it's fine like I I'm living uh near the uh and again I'm I'm proud to share that you know it's it's because I I want my privacy. So that's why I'm I'm living there. Like my my parents also uh suggested or asked me to stay in that room. But again, I want to give them also private. I also want the privacy. So that's why I'm I'm I'm sleeping outside. So and this whole room has been given to her and you know all the all the things are being guided to her and but still she keeps on complaining about things and that's normal I guess like because what they have faced and again whatever we are today it's I think because of her uh back uh the pace that she uh made and then on that my my father worked and others also worked and now here where we are so definitely kudos for that and a big salute to her for going through the things. But guess that being said like she has done few things which is not very good um let's say to my mom or uh to us but again uh it was I think the process of destiny and uh the more I'm understanding her that no she doesn't means it but the way she says it the words that comes out of her mouth are very painful are very hurtful and definitely anyone would but now at this stage I could understand her and I'm trying my best to solve the problems with either of the parties like her or anyone else. Um so that hopefully it it works out and uh because it keeps keeps on complaining and um yeah she has to go through a lot definitely because in in our mind at this age we goes through we go through a lot. So uh we could just imagine that what she might have to go through. Uh but um what we could do at least is just understand her and then make her understand better. uh because uh yeah she also wants her privacy wants to do her things uh but the people around her have their own life have their own schedule have their own routine to follow that's why they could not give the time or let's say the affection and warmth and again that's the I think basic problems and many yeah in in our family since the past so uh the you know the warmth or anything like so um okay okay uh yeah So yeah, this is uh I do have one in general, but I'll try to share it in with another video. But um yeah, this is about her and hoping that uh yeah, so here you can see uh you know, my mom has worked very hard to calm her down with all these images. U so that's that's that's Oh yeah, that's her actually. And that's me. Uh yeah, this one. Sorry. Yeah, this one is me. uh and I think I was five 6 years old I don't know and that's her Maharaj she she uh preached to um and she believes like um so one day I I put a uh affirmation and she was like this Maharaj came and talked with her so that's what's magic for her and that I think calmed her down a bit also but again there's a different theory about that you know when affirmations comes in and that may think like uh like she may take some strong steps but as I have read her um she's a very different lady and she's a very strong definitely but she has again she has gone through a lot so that's why maybe it's very it's it's a bit very difficult for her but she has been I think doing good and hopefully um you know and uh I just want her to stop complaining and you know make uh the things bad for her or around her because like yesterday also one of the uh let's say in the society uh member expired and she was all like you know the people will come to meet her or she has to go somewhere and she has to get and everything but she isn't able to walk properly. So somehow touchwood like before it was very bad but now she's able to manage it on her own self to go to the washroom and use it and um um yeah so again this video can go on and on long but I just wanted to share that be anyone be it the child be it the elder be young be it youth be it adult but all just I think and we need to do is just understand them and then make them understand rather than you don't do this you Don't do that. You are not allowed to do this. This is not good. This is bad. So yeah, just just Okay. Thank you so much. See you in the next one. Bye-bye, amigos. Take care. Au.

Self-Respect vs. Ego ❤️ | Learning When to Give, Let Go & Choose Solitude ✨

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So, I think I learned the difference between the self-respect and the ego in terms of making efforts for some other person or people because I still remember my So [clears throat] sorry for that. college time when I was making constant efforts and um be it college time, be it before that, and be it after that. Because I think I may have fallen for that person's efforts, the way they were putting in efforts for maybe other person or for yourself also be in in helping out something. And I mistakenly may have seen that, you know, that person may be available for me to uh do the same efforts again and again. But yeah, I was wrong. And it was very heartbreaking for a long time of duration. Be it my learn 12th standard, be it my bachelor's studies in computer engineering, and then master's in data science from United States. I think it was fine. Yeah, in that time uh we didn't have, but after coming back to India in COVID time, yes, there was again this. So, um yeah, currently also like I saw that, you know, I'm ready to give the efforts and you know, that person is also okay, fine. They are very loving, they are very warm uh with full of warmth and everything. And but um you need that you crave that attention and you need that so you are not getting it. So, it's I think it's fine uh because it's their journey and what I have been trying to do is try to get their attention through many ways. But it didn't work out. So, I think that has been a very big learning for me over that time. And it was really stressful and yeah, it was really difficult It it was really difficult to describe and it's still if if I think sometimes it still affects. But um thankfully touch wood like being grateful and being gratitude with the things which I have be my family, be it my friends and be it the work which I'm doing helping out those as much as possible be it the students or I'm not helping out but being that mediator through which I could you know help someone out because again it's it's maybe the universe or destiny or God who is helping me out. I think that. I'm just the mediator or the medium through which it is happening. So which I'm loving it and yes it does gets lonely sometimes but I try to go towards the solitude side which me which has been helping me out and I just wanted to share this honestly here and maybe I'll keep sharing and see in the next one then. Thank you so much for watching this one. Thank you. Adios amigos. Bye-bye. I'll go. Take care.

Just Start, Keep Learning & Build Your Confidence ❤️ | From Editing to CSM Certification ✨

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Hi, namaste kamchu. So I just wanted to share how I started editing. So basically initially or let's say earlier few months back uh it would have been very difficult for me uh when I think that how could I do editing but today it's been a bit very easy and touchwood uh uh it has been kind to me that I I discovered this atap on Instagram that also helped me and there may be many other applications also that would help you to add it to stocks but this is really helpful and it's very easy and for my uh vlogs on the YouTube channel also uh it helps me through the video pro vlogger that's I think it's it's a free software and that has also helped me a lot uh to edit the stuffs um sorry so not that that's not the main concept the main concept is that uh you need to be in something I feel like I need to be in something to start be it the swimming be it playing cricket be it basketball be it pickle ball be it tennis it could be anything so I'm I'm learning learning that today and uh I hope that uh that that gives you the confidence and yeah initially it's it's a bit very difficult uh to start something with uh maybe it could be my academ let's say uh even after this four five years of experience in the job at the job at the work um I have did finally I have I have been able to get the CSM certification the scrum master certification that also helped me a lot in my career because whatsoever I feel like yeah it's something like whatsoever I must be doing but if I don't have any proof of work that I am this person then it doesn't makes any sense so I think yeah that's it for now but I'm I'm like trying to learn more and more and uh yeah that's it sorry thank you see you in the next There's a

Just Start ❤️ | You’ll Learn, Grow & Make an Impact Along the Way ✨

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Hi, so I just wanted to share that how it has been this great 23 and uh initially when I started like you know I I still do uh like thinking of myself that maybe um if I'm doing right or maybe I'm looking right or u and again it it could be anything and uh so when firstly when you're uncomfortable I I tried uh let's say not having my family's actually my brother is recording this video and I'm getting very shy but um it's all about the confidence or let's say the uh yeah it's it's all about the journey that you get but once it's it's all about you get yeah come on no I it's all about you need to start but because you will fail or you may make mistakes and it's totally fine And uh yeah now I am doing a bit of from my uh so my main goal or let's say aim is just to uh put it out there. uh so maybe I could help anyone let's say take for an example 10 years back if I had come across something like this that may have helped me uh be it in my career or be it in my content creation journey or it could be anything and I am watching that you know uh I I am able to make some impact around that uh I could be kind I could be helping I could be supporting and again it's all about the maybe uh we call it destination maybe we call it uh universe, maybe we call it God. So, whatever it is, but it's all about doing that bit part of yours. Um, I think yeah, that's it for now. Thank you.

Are We Putting Effort in the Right Direction? ❤️ | A Life Lesson About Effort & Strategy ✨

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Hey. So, uh recently I was in a discussion with my brother, elder brother, let's say. And we were discussing about how we are not getting results and one of the factors that is like, let's say, finding a right life partner. So, because for him we have been looking since I would say more than 1 to 2 years now. And we have like from the start, from the childhood we have worked on our um let's say career or we have been family oriented as well. And we have tried to grown up ourselves as well in terms of everything, helping our family in terms of like, let's say, mother, father, and setting up the business. And it's been good. Again, touch wood. Like we have struggled with like not we have struggled, but we have a we never had many friends. Be it a male or female. And female also we would be a little bit uncomfortable or not that much interactive or feel easy with the interaction. But um So, that's something we have been working on for a while now. And so, in the discussion I was like that are we making efforts? That was my first question. That was I wanted to check with him that are we making efforts in the right direction? Because usually I feel like many times it's about efforts that you put in for something. Uh because uh yeah, may- many people may be lucky that they get what they want. But for few it's like figuring out life, let's say, or figuring figuring out firstly what you want in life and then trying to make efforts in that direction or thinking about it also, uh let's say, consider. But then again, you need to put in that, or say, I feel like that you need to put in that ground efforts that uh you're doing something about it. Be it your job application, be it your you want if you want to buy something expensive, maybe it could be a car, it could be a bike, or it could be an electronic appliance like laptop or mobile, anything. So, that's what I feel. And yeah, that's something I wanted to share that uh there's one example from my college time where I put in efforts in the last night and it it went well. The exam went well. Whereas the second night, I put in the same effort. So, that's also a something we need to work upon. Like it should not be the same efforts goes all the ways. It needs to be strategized accordingly and we need to put it. That's what I feel. So, yeah, I'll see you in the next one then. Till then, thank you. Bye-bye. Peace, amigos.

Getting a Job Is More Than Just Sending Your Resume ❤️ | Build Connections With Empathy ✨

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Hi, namaste. So, um I recently has been going through a lot like where students and professionals reaches out to me um in terms of and saying that if I could recommend to the company. So I just wanted to share one thing that I do understand that you know it's the very uh very unlikely stage to be in and where you are looking for jobs you are applying for uh you have done many applications but uh I think like think like I need to be empathetic let's say for an example if I was when I was starting my first job I did reach out to in one of my other videos also I said that I did reach out to so many people uh be my friends be uncle be it my um yeah so family was very supportive and they were also looking for it but so let's say at that time when I reach to someone I should be first trying to uh work on building that relation building that contact building that bond so that you know that uh person feels comfortable and uh yeah you you I I should try to um get there um politely you again because I need to understand that that person may be very busy. Be it the HR, be it the business analyst, be it the founder, be it the CEO, be it the CFO, it could be anyone. So during that I learned that you know and uh the person might be very busy in their schedule and out of it they are taking out their time. So I need to be very careful about it. So I need to politely follow up with them also that um hey um are you up for a chat or yeah first try I I I will try to build that conversation and then your uh skills or your talent or your CV will play the role because what I have seen is that like you know um if I share my CV and resume and then I'm done. No that I it should not work like that I think. So um yeah it's just a request and I would say I would suggest to any students or professionals looking out for the job because I could not directly recommend you. I need to force at least my values that you know I I I believe in being super active. I believe in being a professional. I believe I believe in ethics. So I should try to convince the other person that okay this is me and this is what I'm going for. Can you help me? And it should not be like you know forcefully or anything uh that yeah you do this you do that that's very wrong I think so yeah that's one I wanted to share maybe if I had uh this and try to leverage I I I should say try to leverage LinkedIn try to yeah it could be anything so sorry for that but yeah this is a big h so sorry thank you see you in the next one bye-bye amigos

Build Yourself From Within & Shine From Outside ❤️ | Be Strong, Kind & Helpful ✨

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Hi. Namaste. Kemcho. So, I know it hurts. It makes you feel bad the way people may treat you wrongly. Yeah, like if you see around, yeah, you may not have that courtesy or you you may not you feel like I I feel Okay, so this is my journey. Let's say I feel like, you know, I'm not looking good and everything. So, I started working out. Like I remember that I was very much impressed with one of my friend six-pack abs. And that one thing did motivated me a lot to gain. And I think it was when I think around 10 to 15 years old. And I I did the exercise and it it immediately like it was like I I get those spike six-pack abs. And now when I'm trying it's it's very very difficult. So, now the priorities change like and I did focus on to uh be it biceps or be it shoulders and everything. To make your overall structure look good. So, that's one thing that get yourself physically active. Get yourself physically attractive. Second thing, mentally. Start reading good books. Maybe or So, what I used to prefer it I used to see the book summaries on YouTube channel and in your own language. The because there will be many. Like I I I used to watch in Hindi. I used to watch in English also. That will also help you in your academic I I feel like it it did help me academically also and and developing my English good. So, that's Yeah, I think physically, mentally two things to make you strong and to make you feel good about it. Although you may because yeah, today also whenever I go to any different sites or meet people, you could see the I could see the face or the you know the the the judgement that maybe. But again, it may be right or it may be wrong. But more than anything, if you are kind, I can tell you I assure you that you know I it it did help me a lot like I could see the spark in the person. And yeah, there may be few people I have seen there has few people that you know who kind of ignores you maybe because you were exaggerated in terms of over complimented them and yeah, it's that. You do your work uh the others do their work. I feel like. So yeah, just be kind, be wise, and be helpful, be supportive. Whatever I could be I I try my best. So that's it for today. Thanks so much. See you in the next one. Bye-bye, mis amigos. Adios.

A Friendship That Grew for Over a Decade ❤️ | Good Vibes, Memories & New Beginnings ✨

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Hi, namaste. Kamchu. So, um yeah, this is a different video and I wanted to record this for Jin Sa Jai. Um yeah I saw your video and uh yeah it it's it's an emotional like you getting emotional like at first um due to I was busy with work and everything I could not uh recognize it properly acknowledge it properly but then I I did shared it with my brother also and he said that he's getting emotional for you so that's something really really great and uh you know it's it's very rare to have those bond created within such a short time like we do share bond since last more than a decade head I would say but um yeah it's it's it's been a very good journey along with you and having you on the side uh let's say whenever um I still still remember we playing out together um downstairs in the uh in the apartment and having fun and that um those words to and lots of lots of things so many things um and yeah so now like we are at a stage you know where we don't have any no more secrets or we are neutral with everything. So I I could not uh express much to you but yeah I'm I'm trying to do it here. So maybe I I'll share it this with you definitely and um yeah what to say? I I'm out of words because you have been that person who brings in good vibes um good energy. Yes, you do have some trades that I I already shared it with you and we'll try to share more with you so that we could all like we could on uh we could be on the same page which I have did with my other friends also and yeah I don't need to talk with them also um and clear these things out which are you know in in your mind in your thoughts but you did not express it to others so you you you expressing it and you know you starting uh you starting your content creation journey so wishing you all the best and Yes, definitely I'm here to help you through anyway. Um but um yeah uh so do do try checking out Gina Sa um uh Gina if you could comment your add a comment in the section uh about your profile because he's a techie he's an enthusiast about the different new technologies coming and new uh let's say be the cloud he is one to um in uh um what we can say um he introduced me to the cloud AI then he did github like I did know being a computer engineer but I don't know in the details. So yeah that's that's a small video for you. I'm sorry I'm I'm very neutral now so I could not get much but I'm I'm really happy for you and seeing you all the best and see you around very very soon. So yeah till then take care. Bye-bye. See you Domigos. Bye-bye. Thank you.

Stay Calm, Lower Expectations & Let Life Unfold ❤️ | A Personal Life Lesson ✨

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Hi, namaste kamcha. So um recently I was talking with one of my friend and it's been a long while after we are going to recon rec meet basically. So meet together in the hometown back in hometown in Gujarat. So we are planning and you know we are excited. So while discussing I he is also excited like uh my friend and I am also kind of excited but then I said like one thing that I have learned over the time is I need to be calm I need to be patient and I need to lower my expectation also in some terms some uh what we can say some ways so that it doesn't hurts me if it didn't worked out because uh over the time like in the past I used to get so much excited for something and if it didn't happen it affects Um so let's say uh be it making some friends or let's say the female friends basically. So I'm I'm very uncomfortable with it and we are shy like we haven't learned it back in times and now also it's been a very difficult to talk with someone or you know compliment or anything but uh and also there may have been few scenarios where it has been taken as very wrong and uh you know it could affect you through different ways but hopefully that's good it's all good around now and um yeah so that's something really personal for me and I I did not want it to do anything wrong like I haven't done it wrong anyway but um this is something like today also um I'm I'm trying to look around for uh some let's say life partner I'll not say anything else but you know life partner who could stick around um because you know like I I know that I am kind I'm really um uh yeah I'm I'm trying to be helpful and supportive to others as much as possible and we are here for that like so my mom usually says that uh if you have come to this world uh you are there to help others. Uh be it through physically, be it through mentally, be or be it through financially. So financially again that's the different topic and uh that yeah we can keep that aside for you but physically as in you see someone and you help them out but more than anything mental is the best thing that you could know guide on. So that's that's one thing but okay sorry. So coming back to the main topic that uh whenever I feel like I quite excited uh I tried to calm it down since and I tried to look it as neutral. So that's that's one thing I wanted to share and uh I have learned and it it did help you a lot and when you start getting uh happy with yourself it's the best feeling. It's the solitude let's say and uh that's it. Thank you so much. See you on the next one. Thank you. Bye-bye. Take care. Adios amigos.

My Mom’s 20+ Year Journey With Natural Hair Care ❤️ | A Story I’m Proud to Share ✨

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Hi, namaste. I'm Ch. So um I wanted to sh recently I visited someone and uh there was this auntie who has been losing her hair and you know when she was describing it it feels really sad and it feels really bad to me and um um yeah so uh due to which it it got struck my mind that uh I am I'm I'm really proud of something I'm really grateful of something that you know uh my mom is doing so she is into this um ayurveic it's totally totally natural. Again, I know this may sound like some promotion or corporation, but why can we do that since I create videos so I thought that yeah, maybe this is something which I could create. And as you could see like this is the hair results of it. And again um I did had a few white hair also and in this it's the natural essence of the products or let's say so it's it's totally natural um in terms of um I have seen the products being made at home. Um and uh there is a there is a vendor I think Hakiman Chi-Chi from where we uh we buy the basic stuff uh where mom buys the basic stuff and puts it together and again it's been uh an incredible effort or let's say hard work of her since over past uh almost 20 years more than 20 years actually 20 to 25 years and amidst uh taking care of the family taking care of both of her sons and uh her the father and growing the business also and making us that capable that we could stand out in our own areas and that we are touchwood like uh we are really grateful for that. So yeah, I just wanted to share and maybe uh you could DM me or you could just put a comment or message me. Uh yeah, please do message me so that I could divert you to the So it's basically called Puji and Sons. P O P O O J I A N D S O N S Pen Sons. Uh I think you could find it on uh maybe LinkedIn, maybe you uh Instagram. uh we do have put it out there and uh she has been incredibly working it hard and I also remember one example where a lady due to covid uh she lost her hair and by using this products it did help her a lot in regaining the hair I think it's it's all about the roots and maybe she's the better person to describe all this about yeah I I I'll try to avoid that but yeah it's something that I wanted to share and um yeah that's it uh thank you so much see you in the next And this way he goes.

From ₹2 a Day to ₹5 a Day ❤️ | My Real YouTube Monetization Journey ✨

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Hi, namaste. Kamcho. So um yeah it's about the YouTube uh let's say the AdSense uh from YouTube how I could earn the money and again it's not very easy when you start or uh even after getting monetization also like once you get roll into the program of them the policy that you need to uh I think I did submitted the Aadhaar card um yeah so there is there will be few details that will need to be submitted as a proof And uh even after that also so I remember like first my payout it did came around 3 years. So I started I just randomly put a a video a GBA video uh uh in I think 2017 and then in 2020 it got some good views around 1 to two likes of me and uh at that time it it started but again in 2020 also like after quite some time after few months uh around in 2021 the first payout came which was around $100 and uh again so yeah you see the 4 years of gap and it's it's not has been easy and then you need to be active and everything and in between work job uh it will get very difficult. So what I try to do is I try to uh record and uh yeah make the videos over the weekend and try to schedule it over the weekdays again as in ethically like that is also before and after the working hours that is so 10:00 a.m. So my my working time hours is 12 to 9. uh so I try to keep it outside even though I will be working beyond that but again it's I think it's something that I believe in so uh it changes uh so then after also like recently I have seen that after this posting consistently and YouTube is very one good platform that you know as compared to others again yeah let's not do that but uh where any videos could work at any time it's not necessary that you know you have to keep putting uh like yes you do have to keep putting but it's not necessary that uh the recent videos only will work. The old videos from maybe 3 4 years or 5 10 years also may work uh unknowingly. So that's one thing and now recently I also wanted to document this that um I have started uh working overwork over the weekends and putting the videos out there in in between all learning different things uh be it AI be it certifications for the scrum master and etc. So uh daily like last 2 weeks uh so earlier it used to be 2 rupees per month. So that is 0.02 appro appro I'm saying it approximately sorry for that and then now after a week or two it gets to 5 rupees per uh sorry 2 rupees per day and then 5 rupees per day. So you see the graph so it's it's a bit difficult but uh wishing you the best. See you in the next one. Thank you.